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You\u2019re talking with someone at a conference when it happens: You realize the conversation\u2019s over. You\u2019re both still contributing to the dialogue, but you\u2019re just filling time with mindless banter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At this point, you have a couple of choices. You could stay and allow the other person to monopolize your time, but that would be self-defeating, because you won\u2019t be able to network with anyone else. You\u2019re there to expand your connections so you can get bigger-network benefits like having access to thought leaders and referral sources. You could also wrap up the conversation quickly. That\u2019s easier said than done, though: After all, you don\u2019t want to hurt the other person\u2019s feelings or sound foolish in the process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Take heart. This is one of those awkward moments that every professional runs into, including the extroverts who seem to be able to talk with anyone. The more you\u2019re around people, the more likely you\u2019re going to have to initiate a conversation exit. Don\u2019t think that a Zoom encounter saves you, either. It can be just as tough to know when to hit the \u201cLeave Meeting\u201d button. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The good news is that you don\u2019t have to be a masterful networker to learn the art of closing a discussion. Anyone can learn and apply the following techniques. Feel free to apply any or all to the dialogues that deserve a respectable ending and not an uncomfortable one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Savvy chess players memorize a litany of preferred moves that they use under different circumstances. These moves become part of their overall toolkits and allow them to navigate matches. You should have a similar lineup of conversation enders that are tactful and reliable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For instance, let\u2019s say you\u2019re at a networking event, and you\u2019ve fallen into a \u201ctalk trap.\u201d One way to extricate yourself gracefully could be to say, \u201cIt\u2019s been nice to meet you. I promised my family\/client\/coworker that I\u2019d check in, though, so I need to step away.\u201d It\u2019s tactful, it\u2019s simple to remember … and it\u2019s hard for the other person to refute.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Just make sure you don\u2019t use your end phrases with the same people over and over again. Can\u2019t figure out an ending phrase? Eavesdrop on others\u2019 conversations. You\u2019ll hear wonderful conversation-enders that you can add to your lineup. Just remember that you want every ending to leave a positive, lasting impression. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
This tried-and-true method for ending any discussion works wonders, especially at conferences. If you see someone else you know, wave them over. Then, introduce them to the person you\u2019ve been talking with. Although you have to stick around a bit, you can smoothly leave the new conversation after a few minutes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
To take this tip to the masters level, make the introduction as personalized as possible. \u201cJake, I want you to meet Molly. She\u2019s an avid skier, just like you and your fianc\u00e9. I\u2019m sure you two could swap wonderful places to hit the slopes.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n
A secondary advantage to this type of closer is that it gives you something to talk with either party about later. You never know: Molly or Jake may one day thank you for introducing them because they discovered they could refer customers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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\u201cI\u2019ve enjoyed our discussion, but I have to go. Could I grab your email so we can stay in touch?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s a terrific way to conclude a conversation, particularly if your back-and-forth has hit a stall. Just pull out your cell phone and you can write down everything before leaving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This \u201ccloser\u201d allows you to close on a highly active note. It also gives you the opportunity to exchange information. Even if you\u2019re not sure you\u2019re going to get in touch with the other person again, you\u2019ve done your due diligence. Additionally, you\u2019ve helped yourself avoid a long, drawn-out goodbye.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To be sure, your conversation partner might hesitate to fork over key information. In that case, pipe up with something along the lines of, \u201cNot a problem. We\u2019ll exchange emails another time. It was great talking.\u201d Just go with the flow, because not everyone wants to give out contact info, even if they\u2019re at a social event.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When all else fails, being genuine always prevails. That is, you can be perfectly honest when closing some conversations. \u201cI\u2019m not great at ending discussions, especially when I\u2019m enjoying them. But I want to make sure I say hello to a couple of other people tonight. So let\u2019s plan to circle back later.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Not all conversation partners will get the hint initially, even though you\u2019re not really hinting. You might have to repeat yourself to get the point across. However, being open keeps you in the driver\u2019s seat and also allows you to showcase a bit of humility, personality, and charm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
One caveat: If you try this strategy, be sure to smile. Putting forth a serious face can make it seem like you\u2019re anxious or annoyed. Ultimately, you want people to know that you\u2019re a pleasant, upfront person. You just can\u2019t stick around for more chit-chat, that\u2019s all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Related: \u201cWhy Mastering the Art of Conversation Will Make You More Money\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n You can\u2019t avoid conversations. They make the world go \u2018round, and they afford you the opportunity to build out your network, potentially boost your paycheck, and raise your social cred. However, you aren\u2019t doomed to get locked into boring, long dialogues every time you step out. Keep your conversation closers in your back pocket and use them accordingly. You\u2019ll leave every event feeling more confident.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" I find this the best place for these topics You’re talking with someone at a conference when it happens: You realize the conversation’s over. You’re both still contributing to the dialogue, but you’re just filling time with mindless banter. At this point, you have a couple of choices. You could stay and allow the other […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","hide_page_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-193","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/193","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=193"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/193\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":194,"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/193\/revisions\/194"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=193"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=193"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=193"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}