{"id":313,"date":"2022-02-21T02:47:55","date_gmt":"2022-02-21T02:47:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/?p=313"},"modified":"2022-02-21T04:47:28","modified_gmt":"2022-02-21T04:47:28","slug":"betrayal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/betrayal\/","title":{"rendered":"Betrayal"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Dear  Sir and Madam<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I hope you are doing well<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>bringing up the value of trust will be much valuable when you see the result of the opposite<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>one of the points that make people feel the value of things they have , is when they suddenly lose it (good example, mess happens in places , people that we see suffer from losing their houses, a good pet, someone  you like in life, many examples   &#8230;&#8230;   )<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>some people may not going to like it ,please give it a time and read it<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>from Wikipedia<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Betrayal<\/strong>&nbsp;is the breaking or&nbsp;violation&nbsp;of a presumptive&nbsp;contract,&nbsp;trust, or&nbsp;confidence&nbsp;that produces&nbsp;moral&nbsp;and psychological conflict within a relationship amongst individuals, between organizations or between individuals and organizations. Often betrayal is the act of supporting a rival group, or it is a complete break from previously decided upon or presumed&nbsp;norms&nbsp;by one party from the others. Someone who betrays others is commonly called a&nbsp;<strong>traitor<\/strong>&nbsp;or&nbsp;<strong>betrayer<\/strong>. Betrayal is also a commonly used literary element, also used in other fiction like films and TV series, and is often associated with or used as a&nbsp;plot twist. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Definition<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Philosophers&nbsp;Judith Shklar&nbsp;and&nbsp;Peter Johnson, authors of&nbsp;<em>The Ambiguities of Betrayal<\/em>&nbsp;and&nbsp;<em>Frames of Deceit<\/em>&nbsp;respectively, contend that while no clear definition of betrayal is available, betrayal is more effectively understood through&nbsp;literature.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Theoretical and practical needs<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Jackson explains why a clear definition is needed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Philosophers <\/strong>should be able to clarify the concept of betrayal, compare and contrast it with other moral concepts, and critically assess betrayal situations. At <strong>the practical level people<\/strong> should be able to make honest sense of betrayal and also to temper its consequences: to handle it, not be assaulted by it. What we need is a conceptually clear account of betrayal that differentiates between genuine and merely perceived betrayal, and which also provides systematic guidance for the assessment of alleged betrayal in real life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Signature and consequences<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>An act of betrayal creates a constellation of negative behaviours, thoughts, and feelings in both its victims and its perpetrators. The interactions are complex. The victims exhibit&nbsp;anger&nbsp;and&nbsp;confusion, and demand&nbsp;atonement&nbsp;from the perpetrator, who in turn may experience&nbsp;guilt&nbsp;or&nbsp;shame, and exhibit&nbsp;remorse. If, after the perpetrator has exhibited remorse or apologized, the victim continues to express anger, this may in turn cause the perpetrator to become&nbsp;defensive, and angry in turn. Acceptance of betrayal can be exhibited if victims forgo the demands of atonement and&nbsp;retribution; but is only demonstrated if the victims do not continue to demand apologies, repeatedly remind the perpetrator or perpetrators of the original act, or ceaselessly review the incident over and over again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If no true apology, atonement, real remorse and plan to change one&#8217;s behaviors are not present, then the one who was betrayed can accept that it happened, and that the perpetrator is unwilling or unable to change. No real change means they can do it again. Lack of validation from the perpetrator can be been described as a &#8220;second assault,&#8221; which can exacerbate the effects of the initial trauma incurred. Accepting the betrayal and going no contact is the best route forward. The alternative is to stay in connection and realize the trespass can happen again, and may choose to avoid doing certain things to decrease severity. For example, if a person gossips, do not tell them your secrets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Political<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Most adults living in&nbsp;liberal democracies&nbsp;place trust in the&nbsp;state&nbsp;of which they are a citizen. When this trust is betrayed, at its worst, the individual can suffer psychological betrayal trauma.&nbsp;Betrayal trauma&nbsp;has symptoms similar to&nbsp;Posttraumatic stress disorder,&nbsp;although the element of&nbsp;amnesia&nbsp;and&nbsp;disassociation&nbsp;is likely to be greater.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The key difference between traditional&nbsp;post-traumatic stress disorder&nbsp;(PTSD) and betrayal trauma is that the former is historically seen as being caused primarily by&nbsp;fear, whereas betrayal trauma is a response to extreme&nbsp;anger. Fear and anger are the two sides to the&nbsp;fight-or-flight response, and as such are our strongest and most basic psychological emotions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pure political betrayal trauma can be caused by situations such as wrongful&nbsp;arrest&nbsp;and conviction by the legal system of a western democracy; or by&nbsp;discrimination,&nbsp;bullying&nbsp;or other serious mistreatment by a state institution or powerful figure within the state.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> I hope you like it<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>some people may not going to like it (I do apologize for that )<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Sir and Madam I hope you are doing well bringing up the value of trust will be much valuable when you see the result of the opposite one of the points that make people feel the value of things they have , is when they suddenly lose it (good example, mess happens in places [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","hide_page_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-313","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/313","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=313"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/313\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":329,"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/313\/revisions\/329"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=313"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=313"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.whatistandfor.co\/humanrights\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=313"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}